The feeling
of fear, anger, worry, jealousy, sadness, discontent, irritation, pain, anxiety,
etc. Is this suffering? Where does it come from?
One
simple example: I want X but you give
me Y. I am angry.
Is
anger suffering? If you know anger is suffering, look and check -- How does it
feel or what does it feel like?
Can you see that usually we
blame that suffering comes from this person, that thing, or the situation that
does not match what we want? Look back at your anger to see where it really comes
from and why it happens. What and who
makes you suffer? Attentively investigate the evidence of suffering until you realize
the root of it.
Do
you have suffering? Look back and ask yourself the following questions:
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Are you ever
afraid? Do you experience fear?
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Are you ever
disappointed? Do you experience disappointment?
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Are you ever
angry? Do you experience anger?
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Are you ever sad?
Do you experience sadness?
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Are you ever
lonely? Do you experience loneliness?
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Do you ever feel
hopeless? Do you experience hopelessness?
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Are you ever
jealous? Do you experience jealousy?
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Are you ever
irritated? Do you experience irritation?
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Are you ever
worried? Do you experience worry?
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Are you ever
anxious? Do you experience anxiety?
These are examples of suffering.
How many of them do you have? Do you want to continue to live like that? Do you
want to know why suffering continuously repeats in your daily life? Do you want
to end it?
Many people believe that
suffering is a normal, unchangeable fact of life. But did you know that it is
actually possible to find out why you suffer?